Knocking on your door

When you go to other people, using derogatory tones, such as "what one thinks that it is," should, in advance, try to answer some questions related to your own person, of course, to get to this point, it must possess a criticism minimum capacity, quality is, that according to what you can see at a glance, you have no interest in growing, especially when you have a natural tendency to everything vulgar and mediocre, when pride and vanity , that flow in torrents of your inner being, can hardly hide behind your guise of "pretty girl" look that abruptly vanishes at the slightest annoyance of any of your whims. You can have quirks that's not bad, can also be long or ambition, as is the case, a number of things that others have or claim to have, at your age, everything is possible, you can defend your space with nails and teeth, have more freedom of action, not accountable to anyone for your actions, etc. and so on., all that can be ... but: When one wants to pass through the paths of "self sufficiency" in the sense of being able to do "whatever he pleases" must first learn some basic principles that make human coexistence between supposedly civilized, you must understand that man is essentially a social being, and this is not just a phrase any lessons learned in sociology, our species, with very few exceptions, simply can not develop their full potential unless it interacts with its other members of their species, learning, step by step, the laws that govern the coexistence.

People like you might think that the laws and regulations, passed long before, the ovaries fertilized your mother, would permit your emergence into the world of living beings are nothing more than arbitrary restrictions, the imposition of the oldest whose purpose is for the sole objective, to try to impose his ancient will, on which, as you are young, intelligent, informed, modern, and therefore better equipped to make their own decisions, without relying on anything or no. There Lord, much ignorance! We live on a planet called Earth, which, as we have all learned, is part of a system that scientists have called "solar system" have also told us that this solar system is part of a galaxy, and countless million of these galaxies are forming our universe interact harmoniously. This small dot in the vastness of space, called Earth, in which we live, is also governed by laws of gravity, to name one, which determines, among other things, that all living beings which inhabit the surface, we are literally trapped in the soil, from the worm that crawls and prayed his heart, to the majestic eagle, with its flight that crosses the summits of the mountains.

Why mention this, for the simple reason of trying to prove that there is no place in the universe where the spaces are not respected, both individual and collective, and this harmonious balance is only possible when each of the actors in order to comply with its very essence and reason for being here and now, assuming the responsibilities of cohabitation in a world that covers us all, in the peaceful coexistence of all living things, there are rules that regulate and guarantee the rights and obligations, no , absolutely nobody, can demand respect from others if in return is not willing to respect and safeguard the right of each and every one. This I am telling you, if you have not you learned, are called basic principles of coexistence, the lack thereof, does not relieve us of its validity, only demonstrate the degree of deviation that we have reached on the route that leads to our fulfillment, soon realized how much more, the greater the chance of frustration, this is a road where there are no shortcuts or detours, certainly, for the sake of our own species, we should not pretend that someone perform a task, however simple or complex it may seem, we can be trained to perform it by ourselves.

And this is pure selfishness, the opposite is the law of life, the same law that drives the birds expel their young from their nests, when sufficiently grown its wings, to learn to fly alone themselves and survive. So, if you have already tested the strength and length of your own wings and believe that you are able to fly freely, go ahead. But ... Beware! The birds do not throw themselves into the void, or separated from your group, stay together and protect each other. Speaking in terms of technology, imagine a large aircraft, equipped with all the necessary elements to ensure greater security for those traveling through the air space, you think that this majestic aircraft, ¿dispense with their contact with the control tower? Would you travel you in an aircraft, for better equipment you have, if your driver to behave that way? No doubt you're intelligent not sufficient bonusstars commit such an imprudence. Much more experienced rider, the greater the precautions you take to pilot his ship. I've been thinking that you're a pilot, you're pretending to drive the ship of your own life by unknown paths of the future, comes to mind the words of the poet Antonio Machado, who wisely tells us, " Caminante no hay camino, is made by walking. "

The time we have been sharing some areas of our lives has allowed me to capture some signals - would be virtually impossible attempt to capture all-signals that make your environment, your preferences and inclinations, your scale of values, such as those concerning the culture, language culture, solidarity is the result of the degree of empathy that you have developed, especially in regard to your family environment, lack of gratitude for all that receive daily use and abuse all that is within your reach regardless of origin, your vanity and selfishness, and so on. and so on. These emit signals, which, as I say, I was able to grasp, let me feel that we are in the presence of a being, which, however, potentially have, say, the plane still lacking of growing your personal aspirations, runs the serious risk of becoming something rather nasty, a little person trivial, superficial and vain, to which is best avoided. Then, to your question, somewhat contemptuous of who will think this is? When you go to other people who may not fully share your views as individual, who was previously correspond in position to make value judgments on your own person, and you answer honestly, who think I am?

As I mentioned before, the value that each can give himself is directly related with the degree of development reached in their ability to recognize the many actions, which, day by day, are made by people around us without any claim, for the sole purpose of working together, for our own lives more enjoyable, than it certainly would be, if they were not there to make things really happen. Actions such as: Give love, give you and serve you the food you eat, you wrap blanket demands for resources that meet your needs, and so on. and so on. A huge list of goods and services they consume daily, which demands that you provide, for the simple reason that you consider the right to sue, but the basic feel obliged to thank and if possible, give back. If you look closely around you, you can see, although there is a very wise saying that "not so blind as one who does not want to see" that there is hardly anything of that daily demands that come from your own effort, you can actually say that you are so dependent on others, as it could be a disabled person, you for yourself, no value, do not add anything, just claim it, do you think you deserve what you get every day ?

Do you think the simple fact that your family are living requires you to give and give without receiving any recognition for what they do? People who really love you are there, always willing to extend yourself your hands, but you must understand that these people have great value in themselves, they have learned that miracles are not asking or demanding, just take place. They are the makers of everyday life, the dedication and sacrifice that transform into works of priceless value, which remain unknown, beyond the recognition and gratitude. We live in a world of consumption, we are always on the lookout, searching, as do the beasts in the jungle, consume, consume, is the watchword of the hour. What we envisage today may be discarded tomorrow, there's always something that touches our desire to consume, all this will happen until the day the carousel of life we ​​have to stop and drop it, it is at this point transcendent of our ephemeral existence, when we realize the nature of value, of what we have wasted, neglected or simply ignored. What the beginning, when you refer to your environment, I suggest you replace the derogatory gestures, feelings of affection, appreciation and gratitude, because they are there, not to be consumed and discarded, but to give human meaning to each day.

If today does not make sense to my words, hoping that tomorrow if you can understand, remains.