My Life With A Narcissist

I'm Rebecca and I've read all your articles on couples, and I do not let the opportunity to tell you my story, I love that you could publish so that other people can "realize" the perversion in which we live. I want to thank the good you do a lot of people so you can leave a destructive relationship so full of pain and betrayal finally gave terminate my relationship with a narcissistic man. My experience is that their perversion and evil, even if unconscious has limits because it is only able to care for himself, his belongings, his beauty, his image and his own illusion of life. I was made a human wreck, his lack of empathy, sensitivity to me, make me always feel guilty about your misfortune, I was always responsible for everything in the relationship, clear of all that was wrong, because what was always well up to him. It is not where my head was stuck, because I felt very special, the reality is that I needed but I was not interested at all. Used me, manipulated me, sure that I am responsible for the mine, but never his cruelty was unbounded.

His cruelty is hidden in a touch of seduction. In our first love life great seduction, how great you feel you touch the sky, against a man so promising, then you realize that he himself falls short of what we think it is. Everything is exaggerated. Nothing shows you is true, basically, your seduction is not only a defense to not realize that it is able to meet even a quarter of what it projects. Its only concern is the conquest and nothing else matters. The conquest understood only in terms of being a conqueror, not in the sense of pleasing to you. So it gives you gifts from your perspective do you see how he would like. I gave the perfume he liked, not my favorite. Shoes that were elegant in their view, although I do not feel comfortable. By giving the gift to yourself. The reality is that they always lie. Always takes advantage of all situations and other people, so, friends or work in trying to relate to people who admire and follow him, who sees children and worthless.

Despises critics, embarrassed, and there is no right of reply, therefore, with the couple that takes you to the end. Always extolling their "qualities, and never acknowledging my own. Instead relentless criticism ended my self-esteem. It's unbelievable, I a woman so secure, so radiant, so full of life. This man is like a narcissistic emotional vampire, a predator of energy and love. Exhibirte ridiculous and make you feel are your most prized weapons. He returns to the lure as if nothing happened. Then came the time to want to change, very nearly I had not lived I had to teach and educate according his words, he was perfect and I had to be great. To finish this witness told me that there was finally a couple who believed in the end I decided to leave the relationship, and even today not forgive me, indeed, in my darkest days, it seems to be full of satisfaction, I think to enjoy my suffering and pain. Fortunately, my recovery has already begun, Ana thanks for your support, online therapy had given me the strength I need, and your book Recovering Trust in love, helped me to have clarity in my life project.

And every day I'm better ... Thank you for sharing your story on this blog and the site Cecreto My mission is the emotional quality of life ...

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